Today my consultant taught me a very important lesson, especially for the young doctors like me. It struck me like a thunder. seriously.
My wards have been a dumping zone, nursing home, shelters for some and house for some permanent residents. One of them is a very old Chinese man, very unkempt, bed ridden for 3 months and came with multiple bed sores, dehydration and pneumonia. The relatives called an ambulance to pick up this man and since then, passed the responsibility to us to take care for the rest of their parent life. Since that day of admission, we never see any relatives, nor any number to contact. This old man remains gaga. Another man is young and fit man, unfortunately get involved with drug early in his life. He is unemployed, staying with a drug lord in Chow Kit and runs errants for him. In return, he gets his high. Recently, he had a row with the Boss, and he is left on the street. Left with no food or clothes, he had to fake his signs and request for admission. Lastly, there is another middle age man, active smoker and heroin chaser, had burned holes through his lung. He needs long term oxygen, yet reluctant to give up his cigarettes and old habits. A little bit of cough will straight away bring him to the hospital and the admission unit is always kindly enough to put him to our ward. He will be admitted at least 3 times a week, and scowled at us if we discharge him.
It has been a serious headache for me and my other colleagues. Our registrar is under constant pressure to reduce these unnecessary workloads.
On the contrary, my consultant is exhibiting la belle indifference towards this matter. He just nod when we shoved him with loads of our complaints. If the man do not want to go home, keep him for another day. We were puzzled at first, but today he shared with us a story.
He is used to be a very proactive, eager, hot head doctors once upon a time. He always upright the juctice, not allowing any wrong, no allowance for these hanky panky stuffs. One fine day, he received a call from his son's headmaster, asking permission to meet him in person. His son was in primary five in a nearby Chinese school. On a separate occasion, his wife received another phone call from their son's form teacher, asking to meet in another time. Puzzled with this events, they decided to turn up together to meet up the headmaster. The headmaster was shocked initially, seeing both of them turn up together. He explains that the reason for meeting them in different time is because they thought there were family issues between both parents, i.e a divorce. The headmasters proceed to inform them that their son, who was a top scholar, drastically deteriorates in terms of school performance lately. My consultant was taken aback, when the headmaster ask for how long they haven't check on their son's school work and academics. The son was so into the video games that makes him neglect his school. All these time spent up holding the rights, making sure the ward runs in order and all other stuffs had cause a toll on his family. Since then, he had taken a step back. Prioritized the important things in life and learned to put family first.
That little story suddenly give me an insight. Learn to prioritize.
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