Have you seen lately that more and more people start to fret about the posting they are going into? Some said they are going to the worst posting, some says they are going through hell. All mean the same. We don't enjoy our posting, or the rotation is not meant for human.
Most of us prefer to dwell in the latter one. Blaming other people is always easier than working out our self conflict. Yes, we work extra long hours, sometimes up to 36 hour non-stop. We seldom get adequate rest, most of us came to work with 'panda' eyes. Most of all, we get all the work, plus the scoldings as well. Isn't that what we have expected? Is that what we have signed up for? Why regret now?
People loves to tell stories, and most of the time, the stories aren't what it is. Sad to day, we chose to believe the stories. People might tell us, how bad it is to go into this posting, how bad the superior is, how hard it is to work extra hours, all sorts of things. These are stories anyway. Stories that will bring us down and demotivate us. We cannot predict what will happen in future, nor we can change the past. Its now that's most important. We lived out each seconds like its the last. We work like one at a time. There is no problem that cannot be solved. We choose to write our own stories, not dwell in theirs.
Be a non-conformist. Do not live by others' shadow. You are the best, and no one else. Just be who you are, not dictated by the stories.
